We're Back!

Someone pointed out that I haven’t published an entry on this blog in a long time! When I checked the date of my last post, I was shocked! I was gone thatlong?

Anyway, Daniel turned two last month and we celebrated it with my husband’s relatives. As opposed to the grand celebration that we had during Daniel’s first birthday, we had a simple one this time. The birthday boy blew his candles without help (well with some coaching from daddy) and clapped his hands while our relatives looked over.

Daniel’s is a big boy now. He’s also very smart and knows words such as ‘infinity’ and ‘scrumptious’, can count in seven languages, can memorize his alphabet and numbers up to 50, can identify the things around him, knows the president and the secretary of state, and is a big fan of American Idol! He’s also semi-retired from watching Brainy Baby and Baby Einstein– his favorite shows now are Dora the Explorer, Blues Clues and Go Diego, Go!

We often check out some kid-friendly locations in the Bay Area for our active toddler. Here’s a recent photo taken at SadieDey cafe in Oakland.

 We're Back!

Fighting to Live

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My visit to Sausalito is unexpected, like intense rain in the middle of summer, but the city is gorgeous as always, even the weekend after Christmas: unusually quiet downtown, empty cafes serving freshly-baked bagels, and weary bikers patiently lugging their gears. I want to show Ivy — my high school classmate who flew in from Virginia — this beautiful town located just right off Golden Gate. When you live in a beautiful place like the Bay Area, you like to show off the best parts of it. I didn’t do the same while living in Manila. Don’t ask me why.

While strolling along the legendary jetty, a familiar face emerges. This time it is thinner, more wrinkled and greased, like a cacao pod dipped in lard, almost unrecognizable. A few steps from him is his dog wearing a holiday hat. Its waiflike, feeble body rests on dirt, a signal of loneliness, of defeat. I ask myself: are these the same twosome who entertained and made people smile?

I remember taking a picture of this duo in September last year during our family visit to Sausalito. The streets were jovial as the accordionist serenaded everybody and the man, with only the guitar as his most-prized possession, put shades on his mammal friend, held his limbs with both hands and pretended to strum some off-key notes. A puppy channeling Led Zeppelin. How cute, I should drop a dollar.

It was a crowd drawer, I remember. The man had a great day. Thanks to the dog, and to the accordionist who didn’t bother collecting her talent fee. For that short-lived show alone, the man got a hatful of crumpled dollars, around 50, I think.

Fast forward, the infamous duo battle the cold San Francisco weather. I wear a cardigan layered with a thick shawI yet I still curse a blue streak when the wind blows my hair. The man doesn’t have anything to cover himself except soiled clothes and the dog, his fur and his holiday hat. I don’t know how they survived the cold especially on nights when we count on our heater to warm us up ’til dawn.

I think if all you have is life, all you do is fight to live — that’s why they’re still there: alive and kicking on a cold winter day.

A Day in Sausalito

Daniel in Sausalito
Enjoying the fountain

We recently took Daniel to Sausalito along with my in-laws and my husband’s uncle and aunt from Tulsa. From the time we left off Embarcadero on a ferry to Sausalito to our way back home late in the afternoon, he didn’t cry once. Yes, not even once! My husband’s aunt and uncle were very impressed. They said they’ve never seen any toddler as patient as Daniel. I couldn’t agree more!

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Surrounded by beautiful flowers

I thought he did a pretty great job traveling with a bunch of adults: he enjoyed sightseeing, danced to street music, pointed at whatever caught his attention, and asked for milk or water if he needed it. I’m so proud of my son! For sure, there will be many road trips with him to come.

Dreaming of Christmas
Dreaming of Christmas

The sun is out

 The sun is out

But it’s cold in Lake Chabot, which makes the surroundings appear gloomy. I expected the sun, but not the gloom. I was close to shivering when i realized I didn’t bring a sweater.Good thing Amarind always brings one, even when the sun is high. He said the weather in the Bay Area is fickle. Now I know exactly what he meant.

In the tropics, I wouldn’t be caught sitting under the sun. I’ve never ever seen anyone willingly sit under the sun. We do everything so we’re not exposed to the heat: we use umbrella as our portable shade, wear scarves and wide-brimmed hats, or stay at the mall until dusk. People don’t like the sun. In fact, when I was in grade school, my teacher made those stubborn students — those who didn’t do their homework and didn’t listen to the lecture — stand under the sun and, if they’ve been stubborn the nth time around, kneel on mung beans under the lunch time heat and endure the pain. I dreaded that punishment so I tried my hardest to always be first in class.

Now, two decade later, I bask under the sunshine especially when it gets colder. I love it: it’s like having your own heater system outdoors minus the bill.

Off to the lake

We’re off to Lake Chabot today to see how much water has increased in the last 24 hours of raining. I bought a light reading material just in case I get tired walking and feel like reading.

I wish the ground were not too wet so I didn’t have to wear rubber shoes. Meanwhile, I’m dreaming of these:

 Off to the lake

A Series of Breakthroughs

My husband on top of a hill, facing Lake Chabot
My husband on top of a hill, facing Lake Chabot

I had a series of breakthroughs this week; I encountered some eye-openers that I may have known before but didn’t really bother to apply them in my life.

I was one of those who always say, “I have no time” or, “I am busy.” I always had this silly excuse that I am swamped with work and couldn’t be bothered to do something else. There were times when I felt that my days were too short and wished that I could stretch them longer so I could accomplish more. I had a habit of equating a fruitful day with how many hours I spent working. I forewent time management and ignored other things that equally demanded my attention. I had little time for my family even though I work from home. I was just there with them and not really for them. I always walked fast hoping that I’d reach the finish line sooner.

I completely missed the point: I forgot to walk slowly and feel the air pass through my nose — I even forgot how clean and fresh air is on this side of the world. I forgot how water can be so refreshing and how soap suds help wash out a day’s worth of problems. I forgot to wear a big smile on my face when walking — it was all about walking with my head up high, literally. I forgot how to smile and appreciate smiles from new acquaintances. Yes, I was missing out on so many things.

Then I received news that a close relative died last week. He was 31 years old. Only two years older than I am. [Read more...]

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